What Happens After Your Child Is Diagnosed With Autism

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After your child is diagnosed with autism, the next steps usually involve understanding the report, applying for provincial supports such as BC Autism Funding, choosing services that match your child's needs, connecting with your child's school, and making sure you and your family have support too. There is no single right path. The most helpful plan is built around your child's strengths, challenges, and interests, and around what matters to your family. Many parents feel relief, grief, worry, or a mix of all three after a diagnosis, and all of these reactions are normal. Taking things one step at a time helps.

Step 1: Understand the Report

Your child's assessment report describes the diagnosis, your child's strengths and needs, and recommendations. A feedback session is a chance to ask questions, as described on the page about what a feedback session after a psychological assessment is. It is fine to read the report several times and write down questions as they come up. Keep copies of the report, since you will need it for funding, school, and other services.

Step 2: Apply for Autism Funding in BC

In BC, the Ministry of Children and Family Development provides Autism Funding for eligible children and youth with a diagnosis. Current amounts are up to $22,000 per year for children under 6 and up to $6,000 per year for ages 6 to 18. Funding can be used for services such as behaviour consultants, speech-language pathologists, occupational therapists, social skills programs, and family counselling, depending on your child's age and the rules in place. For children under 6, many services must come from professionals listed on the Registry of Autism Service Providers. The province has announced that the program is transitioning to a new model, so check current details with the Autism Funding Unit and keep an eye on updates. The disability resources page also lists other benefits, such as the Disability Tax Credit.

Step 3: Build a Care Team

Depending on your child's needs, a care team might include:

• A speech-language pathologist for communication.
• An occupational therapist for sensory, motor, and daily living skills, as described on the page about occupational therapy for sensory processing.
• A behaviour consultant and behaviour interventionist for skill building and support with challenging situations.
• A psychologist or counsellor for anxiety, emotional regulation, or family support.
• Your family doctor or paediatrician for health, sleep, and medical needs.

The page about understanding autism support options for children explains different approaches. It helps to choose one or two priorities to start with rather than trying everything at once, and to choose providers who respect your child and build on their interests, as described on the page about neurodiversity-affirming therapy.

Step 4: Connect With School

Share the report with your child's school to support a ministry designation and an Individual Education Plan (IEP), which sets out goals, adaptations, and supports. Meeting with the school team early helps everyone work together.

Step 5: Care for Yourself and Your Family

A diagnosis affects the whole family. Parents may grieve expectations, feel overwhelmed by paperwork, or worry about the future. Siblings may need information and attention too. Connecting with other parents, accepting help, and getting your own support can make the journey more sustainable. The page about what parental burnout is describes signs to watch for.

What a Diagnosis Does Not Mean

An autism diagnosis does not change who your child is. It gives you language and access to support. Autistic children grow, learn, and develop throughout their lives, and their path will be their own. Some parents also recognize autistic traits in themselves after their child's diagnosis, as described on the page about whether to get assessed for autism as an adult.

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If your child has recently been diagnosed with autism, you do not have to figure out the next steps alone.